Playbook · May 2026 · 7 min read
Lapsed Donor Reactivation: a 10-Minute Playbook (with email templates)
A step-by-step playbook to win back lapsed donors this week — how to define 'lapsed,' segment, write the re-engagement email, and measure it.
Source: Fundraising Effectiveness Project (AFP / GivingTuesday) , M+R Benchmarks 2026
Reactivation gets talked about as a campaign. It's better run as a 10-minute weekly habit. Here's the playbook.
Step 1 — define lapsed. The common line is no gift in 13+ months. Pull everyone past it. Don't overthink the threshold; you can refine later.
Step 2 — segment by value and recency. A $1,000 donor who lapsed last year deserves a different note than a $20 donor from three years ago. Sort by lifetime value and last-gift date so your best relationships get your best words.
Step 3 — write the four-sentence note. Reference the specific gift and its impact, acknowledge the gap warmly, make one clear ask, and keep it under 120 words. Generic 'we miss you' blasts underperform; specificity converts.
Step 4 — approve and send, then measure. Track opens, replies, and reactivated dollars. Reactivation is high-ROI because you're re-engaging proven donors (66% of prior donors give again vs 24% of new — M+R).
The catch is doing this consistently without a spare afternoon. Tongba runs steps 1–3 for you from a CSV in about ten minutes; you do step 4. That's the whole playbook, on a loop.
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